I just wanted to be very clear. My choice tonight was no for anything bad that has happened. I fully support Bartender and all of DHG. My reasons for leaving really are personal. Loosing my daughter devastated me in ways that there are no words for.
DHG has been great to me, I have a ton of respect for everyone, including those who don't care for me or vice versa. I need to deal with alot of hurt in my life right now and it isn't fair to me divs for me to not be 100%. I am not even at 50% right now. It is better for my divs to have someone strong and has the ability to support them fully.
I struggled with the choice of leaving for almost a month now. It comes down to the fact my divs deserve more than I can provide currently. It's really that simple.Those who choose to remove me, I understand. Regardless I will stay loyal to DHG and the people in it. The past few years have been great, and I look forward to the time I can return and start over.
Respectfully.
DHG UNIBOMBER
DHGxProdigy RIP my brother.
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So I was going to be quiet but things have gotten to the point of being stupid. Nothing about Bartender has ever been a secret. He has always had an open door about his past. I never have been or have been instructed to enforce a don't ask or you will be kicked out, demoted, stuck, or whatever bs policy. I learned about Bartender just weeks into joining DHG almost 3 years ago. When I asked him about it, he was straight forward. Now Bartender and I have had our disagreements at times on how to deal with things. One story I tell people is the first interaction I had with him and it was not a good one. I did not hold back and regardless of what I said to him he still kept his professional demeanor. I used ALOT of colorful words in describing what he should go do with his mom. If I was able to go off on him like that and not be demoted or kicked out or struck, then why on earth would someone get punished for asking things about him that are public knowledge?
We don't have access to anyone accounts on enjin, only enjin has that. The contact with DHJ is very non existent at best for all of us in DHG. I have a few DHJ on my friends list to handle recruits, transfers, or other issues. Only 2 of the 6 people I have from DHJ on my friends list do I consider friends. Its not because of age, more because I just don't have the interaction with them. Same for Bartender.
I'm not trying to tell anyone that Bartender is a saint. He is human like the rest of us. Part of being human is being flawed. I judge people by my own interactions and not by what I am dictated by other sources. I respect Bartender for what he does and has provided for this community. He has put more work and sweat into DHG then most of you realize. I have watched him dealing with returning members that have said really bad things about him and he will put aside his personal feelings and allow them to come back because it isn't about one persons feelings but our community as a whole.
Tet, you and I have always got along. I doubt your sincerity about promoting safety and awareness for children. You may have started with that intention, but by attacking other DHG members who disagree with you, you have lost site of your goal. Now it looks more like a child's tantrum, for what I am not sure. You demoted yourself and quit on your own, then attacked BestindaBiz and made is personal. A couple months later your using your son's account to spam out messages about joining DHG the sex offender paradise. How is that protecting your kid? Let alone messaging the guy you claim is hiding something from your kids xbox live account. That is not awareness, that is attacking someone. You have lashed out to people in this community also that has nothing to do with your campaign of nothing better to do. This is what I mean by you loosing sight of your own stated goal.
Bartender did something in his past that nobody is proud of. But he paid for his crime and I feel that door is closed and not my concern at this point. If I ever saw behavior that made me think different I would not hesitate to act on it. BUT in 3 years of DHG it has never happened.
I'm sure you are going to re post this on your wall, and make some kind of witty rebuttal and attack me in some way. I'm almost 40 years old dude, there isn't much you can say back in high school that I am going to care about. Anyone else that wants to jump on his band wagon and call us things like mindless drones, that's cool. I am glad we live in a world where everyone is so perfect in their own lives they can condemn everyone else for not living a perfect life as well as you. Something tells me, your judgemental pendulum is not swinging back your way completely.
I understand some people want to trash certain people after leaving DHG. Some may have personal reasons some don't. I am not going to judge any individual on my wall but instead of slamming people for things you do not know the entire picture about, maybe you should attempt to learn the truth before doing something stupid that would only cause problems for yourself. That is not a threat, but a reality that what you say and do on the net across multiple mediums can have legal ramifications.
I have no secrets, I have no problem with anyone asking anything about me. Others may not feel this way and are not required to put their life on display.
This is a very forgiving community and before judging someone else, try and think how good you have been in life.
He who is without sin cast the first stone.
Im back from my LOA, thanks to everyone who has been very supportive over the past week. I love this community for the amount of caring and love during a really bad time. Special shout out to Judge for really going the extra distance and covering my 360 divs ontop of talking to me while everything was going on. I love you brother!
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Im intrested in bf4 on the one
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If you need badges hit me up on live in a party so I can get everyone and everything at that time. Bouncing between consoles for my divs takes alot of my time and checking my wall is not my main priority.
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